sorry ~

gara2 mama leka tgk tv + makan kacang, Amirul terjatuh terantuk bucu kabinet tv.. Mak ai, berlekuk kepala Amirul.. Hopefully xda ape2 la kan? Sorry baby, mama lupa Amirul dah terror bab panjat2 ni.. Pasni mama akan lebih alert lg.. Promise!!

Mmmmuuuaaahhh.... >

motivated ur child

Petikan ini diambil frm Wardina Saffiyah Facebook-Notes,di harap dpt membantu saya dalam motivate my childrens + students...

■Work with your child to set personal growth goals, and develop ways to monitor his or her progress toward those goals
■Do not compare your child to his or her siblings or others. Speak up when other people make comparisons.
■Avoid rewarding your child’s performance outcomes. If you must use rewards, reward your child’s effort or task completion.
■ Discuss with your child topics that relate to motivation, including failure avoidance, anxiety, self-worth, and individual progress.
■Create connections for your child between his or her school experience and real life.
1. Students are motivated to learn and achieve when they perceive that their teachers/parents care about them. (our relationship-how close we are, how much our children trust us plays a very important role)

Teachers who care were described as demonstrating democratic interaction styles, developing expectations for student behavior in light of individual differences, modeling a "caring" attitude toward their own work, and providing constructive feedback.


2. Students do not seek help (a) if they perceive that their self-worth is threatened, (b) if their cognitive competence is low, (c) and if they perceive little benefit in seeking help.



We see why ,many of our schoolchildren are soooo afraid to seek help, ask or participate... our approach , attitudes to teaching and disseminating knowledge has to change..like NOW!



They are basically SCARED... our method of teaching and in-calculating knowledge is centered upon the "scare tactic" YOU HAVE to..we give NO what so ever autonomy to children, giving NO autonomy decreases their intrinsic motivation to do something..the right to make choices is very very significant to a person ..this is even true in case case of religious teachings..we ALWAYS talk about the HARAM, the BAD, NOT to do this and that but forget to talk about the million of good and stuff you CAN do....



That is why we need to remember that in order to increase Achievement Motivation - parenting techniques and support are so crucially important... 2 basic rules are to:-



1. Communicate Explicit or Clear Expectations



tell them what you expect, Why its important...CLEARLY





but let them figure out HOW....



2. Give our children Independent Training..or the freedom to choose after we present to them our expectations...

yang terbaik dari mama~

Alhamdulillah, bila dapat tau pregnant for 3rd time / 2nd bb (2nd pregnancy gugur).. Rasa teruja sgt2. Bukan sbb gatai.. Hahaha.. Tp nk bg exclusive bf for my bb till bb 2 thn... So far Amirul Zikry dah almost 8 months and still fully bf w/o any fm... Semoga rezeki AZ sentiasa ada dan bertahan utk 2 thn ni.. Amin..

menjelang thn terakhir TWO-series... ;p

alhamdulillah... bertambah lagi usia di bulan Oktober ni...
menjelang thn terakhir TWO-series.. kekekekkekeke..
ye, next year dah masuk THREE-series ok.. tp, umur hanyalah angka saja..
saya tetap muda di mata sume..<-- cet, perasan sungguh...
pencapaian saya?? kalo dlm swasta kita panggil appraisal.. kalo dlm kerajaan.. di panggil SKT..
sepanjang 29 thn ni, sy sudah capai apa yg saya nak.. w/pun sy tak kaya.. tp saya bahagia.. ada suami, anak2.. keluarga.. kawan2.. kerjaya.. syukur ya Allah...
semoga utk thn ini, Allah permudahkan segala urusan agar saya bole jadi manusia yang lebih baik lagi..Amminnn...
celebrate bday???? seperais..seperais... i likee...

update ka?

cerita di hari raya ~

my abang a.k.a ultraman kosmos a.k.a mrbean~

dinasour.. tp dah mati...<

cuti sekolah

Alim Kids @ Seri Kembangan

akhirnya berjaya anta aidil ke playschool. even once a week. jd la.. so far aidil happy pg playscool.. '

mid term exam

ok.. Dah start exam mid term.. Abis exam school holidays! I loike... Byk sgt nk update dlm blog.. Tp sgt bz ok.. Sejak beranak 2 ni.. Nak pakai kain pun x sempat.. Teetttt.. Haha.. Ni saje test berblog guna hp.. Tu tanda nak bgtau cek dpt hp br okey.. Sempena dpt bb no 2..c7 gitu.. Wpun x dpt ipong.. Xpe la, ukur bj di bdn sendiri kan..

Bulan Januari

selain dari permasalahan di sekolah.. kesibukan di sekolah.. kepadatan di sekolah.. aku suka january!!!!! sbb its our wedding anniversary!!!!!!

so, this year aku plan mcm2... cewah, perasan diri ni tak preggy konon.. tp last2 satu - dua plan je yg jadi... xpe la kan??? sekurang2nya we're celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary...

ape yg kitorang buat???? <-- tetiba ade sound effect..

cube cite..cube citer... ala2 hantu kak limah lak kan??? ;p

thn ni aku bajet nak order kek kecik jer.. cukup la utk 2-3 org makan... aku bajet rm50 jer.. order ngn student.. bile dpt, mak aiii.. mcm nak buat party lak... jenuh nak ngabiskan.. kena la sedekah sane sini.. xpe la kan? rezeki utk org len gak.. sedap + cantik... last year aku order cupcakes.. pun best jugak.. biase la, yg akan mkn.. aku jugak... hahahahhahahahaha..... kami celebrate bertiga + bb jr... sweet jugak.. sbb aidil nyanyi lagu happy birthday tuk mama.. *-*

esknyer, kitrg g lunch kat Restoran Berpusing Menara KL.. hehheeheheh... agak ok la makanannyer... lunch hour kul 12- 3ptg.. so ko melantakla dr 3 jam tu.. smpe perut nak meletup pun xpe.. kitrg smpe around 1pm.. so 2 jam la melantak... ngn suasana ala2 romantik.. tp kalo mlm lagi best kot.. leh tgk lampu2 kat KL ni.. tp kira ok la.. 2 kali pusing bandar KL.. tp yg xbest tu.. en somi leh kata... 'xpe, smlm awak banjer kek rm50.. hr ni saya banjer awk rm170..' haampeh sungguh.... mentang2 la xde bg hadiah pape kan???? ni bb jr dlm perut ni.. x ternilai tau!!!!!!! sejuta pun lom tentu saya terima.. :D

so, layan gambar je la yer?????

~abang aidil~
thnx for da lunch xoxo!!! ~mini celebration~

HAPPY 2011.. *-*

hahahah... tak kira, w/pun dah masuk bulan kedua 2011... aku tetap nak wish.. HAPPY NEW YEAR u'ollss... selamat tahun baru.. selamat berazam baru.. selamat berbaju baru.. selamat sume baru yer... pada azam yg x dpt thn lepas dan thn2 lepas... kita masih bole capai utk thn ni lak...
wwhhuuiiissshhhh... sungguh wei, br ku tau jd cikgu ni rupenyer penat gilos!!!! last year aku terselamat.. sbb lapor diri akhir january.. so xde la terlibat ngn pendaftaran.. ngn ajk itu ini.. ngn aktiviti itu ini.. sume dah settle... aku cume relief class je.. pastu amik alih kelas org.. kul 145 dah balik... hari senin jer... hari2 lain... kul 115 aku dah chow... heaven kan??????? 2011 ni.. jgn harap la kan ko nak senang lenang ngn perut boyot tu.. xde makne nyer... start 29 dec aku dah keje balik lepas sebulan setengah duk goyang perut kat umah... ;p
memula meeting guru kelas.. ceh nampak mcm dpt kelas ok.. form 2G.. kelas tgh2.. tp Ya Allah... next post la aku citer yer???? x sanggup la den nak citer tgh2 mlm ni... pas meeting kelas, esknyer 30 dec meeting pengurusan lak... dah time nie.. mcm2 ajk la yg kena pgg... jd Ketua Kadet Polis, GP Kelap ERT, S/U PSS... ok la... pastu tgk lak takwim 2011.. mak aiii.... sepanjang januari 2011, kena dtg sekolah hr sabtu... makno eee.... den kene bgn kul 530 pg hari2... kecuali ahad lerr... uuuummmaaannngggaaaiiii.... sgt tak best yer.. dah la masuk2 bln januari bb dah 32 weeks= 8 bln... adoiii lotih bonar lak kan????
31dec lak, ade orientasi form 1... hmmm takat jg pendaftaran je kan??? abies je pendaftaran, aku memulakan misi mencari tadika / taska utk aidil... boleh thn la cabarannyer... perlu memenuhi kriteria yg aku nak.. 1st kena berada di lingkungan 1km dr sekolah... pastu berbaloi ngn duit yg di byr... ade taska tu, amat la bagus.. GCC... tp yuran pendaftaran rm1700++ bulanan 280.. kul 8-12 jer.. lebih kena cas... kalo amik kul 3, double payment =rm560 sebulan... baik aku daftar aidil trus g form 1... yuran baru rm200.. xde pun byr bulanan kan??? hahahhaa.. ngalahkan anak nak masuk U jer... konsep nyer, biar aidil bermain dulu.. br 3thn ++... dekat area hospital mizan lak, pendaftaran rm50 jer.. monthly rm150.. 7-2ptg... kira ok gak la.. tp ni mcm nursery.. xde blaja2 sgt... tp tgk la camne kan???? then g tadika ABC... yg ni pendaftran rm700, monthly 150 jugak... tp ade blajar2.. BM, BI, Math, Science, Mandarin.. ok gak... lepas gedebak gedebuk ngn en somi... kami sepakat nak anta pertghan thn, lepas aku abis pantang.. yer la kan? kalo pantang, sape la nak gile anta anak g jauh2... len la kalo aku keje kan???? so, ade la 2-3 taska yg agak berbaloi ngn monthly payment... cececececec..... tp en somi msih lom dt terima hakikat yg aidil dah bole g skolah... sgt la ngade2 kan???
dah settle bab aidil + pendaftaran, sesi sekolah 2011 pun bermula... ya rabbi.. sgt la tak terarur hidup ku.... 1st week ade kursus keibubapaan, 2nd week ade kursus pengurusan, 3rd week ade gotong royong kelas, 4th week ade hari kantin!!!!!!! ingat senang nak jadi cikgu.... hari2 balik lambat... 3rd week dah start latihan rumah sukan + latihan kawad kaki... saya kena balik kul 530 /6 ptg... wwwaaaaa.... dah mcm keje opis lak ni kan??? pg sebelum matahari terbit.. smpe umah balik lepas matahari terbenam... sadis sungguh... seb bb dah ok.. xde yg serius... januari 2 kali MC... sbb ade appitnment ngn pakar hospital serdang... time tu la aku nak ngelat... balik umah tdo... hahahahah... ptg2 br la amik aidil.. harus la kan??? so sbb tu la blog ni menyepi dr sebrg berita... xde mase weiii...
ok la.. next post lak... ni kira pembuka tirai 2011 la yer... Selamat Tahun Baru.. semoga 2011, membawa rahmat kepada anda sumer.... buat aku & keluarga... semoga 2011, memberi lebih kestabilan dlm hidup, kewangan, kesihatan.... semoga kami sentiasa gembira dan bersyukur dgn segala limpah kurnia dari-NYA.. amin...

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